In the first essay, “The Death of Pretty” is about how women
in today’s society would rather portray themselves as hot instead of pretty. The
author, Pat Archbold, claims that he believes women have changed and they no
longer wish to be seen as innocent. The second essay, “Dadbod: A New Word for a
Timeless Physique” is about many women nowadays are attracted to the dadbod
figure. In the past things were different, and now women want their men to have
a belly but also still look good. I feel like these essays are very similar but
in opposite ways. For example both essays are talking about how the views of
one sex have changed throughout the years, and both essays reflect on if the modern
view of men/women have changed in a positive or negative way. In “The Death of
Pretty” essay I feel like the author made a negative correlation between the
words pretty and hot, but in the dadbod essay I feel like the author created a
positive correlation between the standards of an attractive man then vs. now. The
negative correlation is shown in the essay when Archbold says, “When women want
to be hot instead of pretty, they must view themselves in a certain way and
consequently men view them differently as well.” He is saying that if women
want to be seen as “hot” then we should be okay with men looking down on us.
The positive correlation is shown in the second essay when Kornhaber says, “It
almost goes without saying that the dadbod regimen of play sports, eat pizza is
exactly what pop-culture has long said guys should be doing while women strain
to maintain what Vilkomerson calls "the holy size zero." Overall I feel
like both essays make it seem like women have to look or be a certain way for
men so they will be good enough, while men are told to just eat a lot of pizza
and sometimes workout because that's what people expect of them.
Mackenzie Rosales
I agree with your view on the essays. It seems very opposite when both are compared to each other. On one hand, the expectations of men are lowering, while on the other the expectations of women seem to be ever raising. As a guy myself, I feel sorry for women and while I am relieved that I don't have to achieve anything unrealistic, I feel that women should be expected to do the same as opposed to feeling like they need to be "hot". Innocence is more attractive anyway. In the end, I think we should all be more focused on character than how we look. Appearances never last either, so it makes more sense to me if we all spent our time and energy on things that will actually make a difference in our lives. With that said, I know that can be hard to do for many people, but I strongly believe in being confident in who you are instead of trying to be whatever society wants you to be.
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